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Encouragement Is The Dose Of Support Our World Needs

2:46 am in Pyschology That Helps by seph

Real encouragement matters. It actually does.

We all need someone in our corner who believes in us when we are down and out. Life simply seems to happen and we get knocked down consistently. But your world can really change when you have an encourager in your life. This type of person is someone that really believes in you and can bring you up when you aren’t feeling great about yourself. This is someone who can remind you exactly who you are when you start to forget.

Encouragement is the dose of support our world actually needs.

Encouragement is crucial. It isn’t motivation or inspiration, but instead it’s about bringing in a little bit of light into other peoples lives. If we can bring in some light to those who may not necessarily have a supporting system or who are fully lacking encouragement in their regular lives, well, then aren’t we living a good life ourselves?

We reside in a place and time that focuses more on tearing others down than bringing them up. Gossip floods the news and people pay to watch others get destroyed. We adore watching heroes fall who’ve risen to great heights. Maybe it is down to the fact that we would like them to be back down at our level because we have not risen ourselves? Who actually knows? But what I know for sure is that we have a tendency to want to bring darkness into peoples lives rather than light. That single fact is pretty worrying when you think about it long enough.

This has to change. It really has to change.

We must start promoting what we adore instead of promoting what we do not like. If we do not we will continue to look at our world fall apart at the seams until we have nothing left.

So take a stand for what you love.

Encourage Others.

Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Need some more content to help encourage others? Dive into these encouraging quotes

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Our Greatest Oracles: Strong Women

10:47 pm in Pyschology That Helps by seph

There's little more attractive, wonderful, and satisfying than being around women who have something awaken within them – a journey, a calling, an adventure. I really have been pretty supremely lucky to have spent a lot of time with powerful women – even raised by two great ones who I would do anything for – women who have their own dreams notwithstanding all of the crazy things they are fed mentally by our society, battle anyway. They’re completely unique in a world that’s trying it’s best to coaching them to be like everything and everybody else. How awesome is that? Above all, women act as moment by moment integrity checkers for men, oracles even, and if you can surround yourself with a grouping of powerful women, you will grow unbelievably, have your head lovingly cut off when you aren’t being the best man you could be, and you will experience life itself and its massive selection of experiences. Like the ocean they change and shift by the second, intense feelings and thoughts swarm…let that help you to find your solidity. They’ll test you with their darkest moods and feelings – only to have them feel you are immovable, the mountain, always going to be there irrespective of what and firm in your purpose. These are gifts, not hinderances. These guiding relationships create you, but if you deflate – they will destroy you. Seek them out – don’t be at all intimidated women can move mountains. They are to be treasured.

The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed almost 180 degrees for plenty of reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. Across the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had two awfully strong and powerful women in my life – my sister and my mother – who are incredibly driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and tended to gel with girls better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad also, similarly as driven, loving artistic and persistent and became a product of my environment and nurturing.

As I went through the turmoil of my younger years, I was “all that changes and shifts. ” My moods, my attitudes, my emotions, and thoughts…I have described it many times…were like a tornado within me that declined to quit. Even when it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Mix that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career stopped and an enormous mess was made. So I crashed like the ocean for a while…and at last found my way to writing.

But lately this dynamic shifted religiously as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what strong masculine energy essentially was. This has not just only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There’s an idea that has entered into my mind which has stuck with me for months now, and it’s the idea of the mountain. That solidity – identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being totally grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose – which is the expression of love itself.

When a man ultimately begins to understand this concept, I will tell you…mountains don’t just move in front of him…he becomes the mountain. Whatever happens around him swirls and yet he is fully calm, snug, and is still embedded in his deepest desire. To find your purpose is way more than just what you do for work – it should be a direct leader in your life and will influence your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It did for me. As soon as this hit – bloom – unfold – open – closing the chasm – joy – inner wisdom – integrity – perseverance through anything.

Women are similar to the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In a moment, a calm beautiful ocean can become a series of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small boat wondering how the hell you’re going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it implies to be alive. Why do you actually think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a form of energy that’s uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for guys who do not and won’t understand what it actually means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked directly out of the their ship – I can’t tell you how many times I have been tossed out of my boat or bailed before the wave hit. But give a open man a purpose, and that wave actually starts to appear like fun. Additionally, that wave can inspire your deepest purpose.

This is the part that has changed my life utterly.

Every day I sit down and write, I am completely driven by a variety of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my little chair outside on my porch…close my eyes, and breathe as deep into my stomach as I can. I find that density – that solidity – that love – that emptiness. There’s this sort of energy that if you focus intently upon it deep enough, you will find a low frequency lull…that is exceptionally deep and potent. A wavelength that has existed far before everyone and one that will undoubtedly be here forever after. I’ll feel it circulate through me often when I am sitting on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or begin to run through the days events – utilizing all the things that changed – and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing – and yet, all at the exact same time, I really am here, absolutely grounded in my place – living as if I was in fact already dead.

Fear, in my heart, disappears.

There I am, grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and totally electrified by the women around me and that amazing feminine energy…creating, loving deeply, and open to all doubt. It’s this dynamic, the one between the male and the female – and my tapping into both – which has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, changed my friendships and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I never knew existed. Floods of amazing people have showed up in my life and I can really see all of it morphing, only to know that it’ll all change and pass…and that is superbly O.K.

Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website devoted to spreading positive high-quality content to those who need a little spark and motivation in their lives. In celebration of the amazing women in his life, he developed a post dedicated to strong women quotes to celebrate just how much we can learn from having women in our lives.

by seph

Avoid Life’s Pretty Wallpaper & Get Filthy

4:16 pm in Pyschology That Helps by seph

Love the inherent craziness in real things. Without a modest amount of uncertainty, it’s going to lack depth. Without depth, you’re going to skim the border of what’s actually possible for you. Without finding your best stuff and what creates your foundation, development and fulfillment will seem like a remote dream. You see, there’s an inclination to become infatuated with the fast and easy, but that is not where the magic is. The magic lies within the depths. The magic takes some soul spelunking. The magic…is in jumping out of the boat completely and diving deep down into unexplored waters all while having indestructible faith that you will find a bubble of air on the way down.

Fear? Embrace it.

When you actually think of it, we reside in a world absolutely full of chaos. Everything is going 1,000,000 miles a minute. Things are consistently collapsing and colliding together. It’s a miracle that we are even in a position to function with everything happening around us. Some find their way early and others spend their entire lives looking for some form of meaning that will give them direction. We seek out direction, education and consume great amounts of material to help us attempt to sound right out of all of this. What is the point of the journey I’m on? Who am I while traveling on it? This uncertainty can seduce us into trying to digest surface level pseudo-spirituality so as to help us understand ourselves. Do not get me wrong, I am all about life quotes and the small morsels of wisdom they can divulge to us, but without understanding context and avoiding diving into the depths we set ourselves up for disaster. Surface level foundations never work…try building a kingdom on wallpaper.

And that’s actually what all this shallow surface level stuff is when it comes down to it – wallpaper. It is what you put over something to cause it to look all pretty and nice. Life isn’t all pretty and nice. Life is dirty. Life can be vicious. Life can test you and bring you to your knees every time it feels like it. Irrespective of how much you try and avoid certain things happening, life acts as a professional dart thrower, hitting it’s target every time – irrespective of how fast it’s moving.

But in real things (thoughts, emotions, experiences) that have some depth to them, they aren’t wallpaper in the slightest. They have some madness to them. They are not predictable, uncertain and frequently totally astonishing. They rip the rug out from under you and help you pop right back up when you are down. It’s a bit chaotic, but that is the honest point. The chaos is the attractive part. The chaos is the art. When you start to live in that place, your whole life becomes part of that painting. Then, when you begin to understand that you have a role to play in this world, you can honestly start to develop the steered hand of the painter.

But you’ve got to get messy first.

Roll around in the dust. Get mud on your face. Tear down the wallpaper. Burn down the termite ridden support beams you have created throughout the years and dance in the ashes of it all. That rock solid ground you are standing on – that’s absolutely going to be the spot where you build your life. It is now time to build it over again and do the work you’ve always been afraid to do.

What’s life without any risk? Just surviving.

Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragement a website devoted to bringing audiences encouraging blogs, life changing quotes, videos and other content to help people follow their passions and purposes.

by seph

Of Oracles And Very Strong Women

12:16 am in Pyschology That Helps by seph

There's little more attractive, wonderful, and satisfying than being around women who have something awaken within them – a journey, a calling, an adventure. I really have been pretty supremely lucky to have spent a lot of time with powerful women – even raised by two great ones who I would do anything for – women who have their own dreams notwithstanding all of the crazy things they are fed mentally by our society, battle anyway. They’re completely unique in a world that’s trying it’s best to coaching them to be like everything and everybody else. How awesome is that? Above all, women act as moment by moment integrity checkers for men, oracles even, and if you can surround yourself with a grouping of powerful women, you will grow unbelievably, have your head lovingly cut off when you aren’t being the best man you could be, and you will experience life itself and its massive selection of experiences. Like the ocean they change and shift by the second, intense feelings and thoughts swarm…let that help you to find your solidity. They’ll test you with their darkest moods and feelings – only to have them feel you are immovable, the mountain, always going to be there irrespective of what and firm in your purpose. These are gifts, not hinderances. These guiding relationships create you, but if you deflate – they will destroy you. Seek them out – don’t be at all intimidated women can move mountains. They are to be treasured.

The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed almost 180 degrees for plenty of reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. Across the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had two awfully strong and powerful women in my life – my sister and my mother – who are incredibly driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and tended to gel with girls better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad also, similarly as driven, loving artistic and persistent and became a product of my environment and nurturing.

As I went through the turmoil of my younger years, I was “all that changes and shifts. ” My moods, my attitudes, my emotions, and thoughts…I have described it many times…were like a tornado within me that declined to quit. Even when it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Mix that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career stopped and an enormous mess was made. So I crashed like the ocean for a while…and at last found my way to writing.

But lately this dynamic shifted religiously as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what strong masculine energy essentially was. This has not just only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There’s an idea that has entered into my mind which has stuck with me for months now, and it’s the idea of the mountain. That solidity – identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being totally grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose – which is the expression of love itself.

When a man ultimately begins to understand this concept, I will tell you…mountains don’t just move in front of him…he becomes the mountain. Whatever happens around him swirls and yet he is fully calm, snug, and is still embedded in his deepest desire. To find your purpose is way more than just what you do for work – it should be a direct leader in your life and will influence your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It did for me. As soon as this hit – bloom – unfold – open – closing the chasm – joy – inner wisdom – integrity – perseverance through anything.

Women are similar to the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In a moment, a calm beautiful ocean can become a series of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small boat wondering how the hell you’re going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it implies to be alive. Why do you actually think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a form of energy that’s uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for guys who do not and won’t understand what it actually means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked directly out of the their ship – I can’t tell you how many times I have been tossed out of my boat or bailed before the wave hit. But give a open man a purpose, and that wave actually starts to appear like fun. Additionally, that wave can inspire your deepest purpose.

This is the part that has changed my life utterly.

Every day I sit down and write, I am completely driven by a variety of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my little chair outside on my porch…close my eyes, and breathe as deep into my stomach as I can. I find that density – that solidity – that love – that emptiness. There’s this sort of energy that if you focus intently upon it deep enough, you will find a low frequency lull…that is exceptionally deep and potent. A wavelength that has existed far before everyone and one that will undoubtedly be here forever after. I’ll feel it circulate through me often when I am sitting on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or begin to run through the days events – utilizing all the things that changed – and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing – and yet, all at the exact same time, I really am here, absolutely grounded in my place – living as if I was in fact already dead.

Fear, in my heart, disappears.

There I am, grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and totally electrified by the women around me and that amazing feminine energy…creating, loving deeply, and open to all doubt. It’s this dynamic, the one between the male and the female – and my tapping into both – which has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, changed my friendships and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I never knew existed. Floods of amazing people have showed up in my life and I can really see all of it morphing, only to know that it’ll all change and pass…and that is superbly O.K.

Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website devoted to spreading positive high-quality content to those who need a little spark and motivation in their lives. In celebration of the amazing women in his life, he developed a post dedicated to strong women quotes to celebrate just how much we can learn from having women in our lives.

by seph

A Life Of Many Possibilities & Vibrations

11:31 pm in Pyschology That Helps by seph

“The law of attraction is all about vibration. Everything is vibrational, your thoughts, your concepts, each being. You will draw to you whatever vibration matches yours, wanted or unwanted. ” – Unknown

Where do I even begin?

Everything around you is moving, changing, and shifting. It doesn’t seem true, but it really is. When it comes down to it, we are roaming around in a living, breathing world. When we stop viewing the world as something static and begin to see just how dynamic everything is, things really begin to change. In truth they change seriously.

As much as we may try to reject this fact, we act like magnets a lot of the time.

We tune into circumstances wavelengths, pick up on other folk's energies, get drained or revived by those around us and get eerie chills up our backs when something doesn’t sit with us right. Energy. Vibrations. Frequencies. These things are all real. Even more than that , they’re amazingly powerful.

There are a lot of things we cannot see. Does that suggest they can’t exist? Of course not. I believe history has proved time upon time that simply because we can’t see it or meticulously compute it, it doesn’t mean that it can’t exist. The undeniable fact that we bent metal, put wings on it, stuck folk in an all-not-so-spacious cabin and sent it into the sky…well, that’s as extraordinary feat. Send that innovation back a few thousand years and you would break minds. They wouldn’t be able to see it then, but we are able to see it now. When you start playing around with this idea in life though, that is when things heat up and start to get pretty fascinating. Occasionally eventualities or events appear a bit beyond coincidence. Isn’t it possible that it is beyond straightforward coincidence? Could you be putting out a totally different vibe that brought forth a very different set of results than you are originally comfortable with? I’d venture to say that the answer would be yes usually.

Because if there is anything I actually understand about how life works, it’s that if you change your perspective, you will change your actions and you absolutely will receive different results.

What if you view the world in a very different way – as a place full of energy that may be plugged into rather than a place where we just exist? What if you really started to focus your energies on bringing good support mechanisms and love into your life and then did the things which corresponded with those vibrations? Why wouldn’t Could your entire world change?

I truly am not making an attempt to make a sales pitch here, all I am actually doing is producing for you a point of view to think about.

There are endless possibilities in this life, we just need to be open to them. After we stop projecting our own shallow-minded concepts onto the future and give ourselves the opportunity to just be blown away by what life itself can offer, we start entering into a way more satisfying way of traveling through life. If we can stop rowing to that island of “where it all turns out” and just hangout in the boat for a while, even if we're not rowing anywhere at all, we would all be a lot more happy and enormously more present to what is occurring around us.

It’s fascinating for me to watch people come to the realization that the majority of what they have always searched for was already inside them. Often times, the “self” is the last place we actually look to discover who we really are because we know there’s dirty work to be done. We need to dive into the difficult times, spend a little time healing, spend some time working with our unpleasant thoughts and emotions…but in the end we actually open ourselves up to unfolding depth and faith. It’s much easier to tack on talents and new talents learned from books than it is to do the difficult work. We can digest book after book giving us tips and tricks, simply putting more oars in the water on our trip to the island where it all turns out, and yet never get there – because that island actually doesn’t exist.

It’s already in you. You are already it.

Those vibrations you are feeling about desiring to become something or some type of person usually exist in you because they are already you. Now I am not denying the indisputable fact that lots of work needs to be done to develop and deepen yourself. But what I am going to say is that those energies that you feel already, they are honestly here now and may not really be there in the future you are so despairingly attempting to get to. No, you have got to realize you can be those things you are feeling within right now. That's the reason why they are calling you to begin with. If you make a decision to take on those vibrations and really begin to live in the present…worlds change and mountains can move.

When you experience it for yourself, it’s lovely. But when you help another find this moment…now that is magic itself.

Evan Sanders is the creator and curator of The Words Of Encouragement a place devoted to others and spreading light to those who need motivational quotes, inspirational messages, and a little pick-me-up from time to time.

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Positive Thinking – What Can It Do For You?

9:54 pm in Pyschology That Helps by seph

Positive thinking is an incredible tool, but without action it’s a waste of time. Rather than just having a momentary thought it’s more of a lifestyle. It’s a method that you simply use to make positive affirmations that will counter damaging thoughts and doubts by neutralizing them and building the self-confidence you’ll need for whatever you would like to realize.

Thinking by doing this is a ability you can learn and create with constant apply, however it is worth it to make a habit of constructive thinking?

In some circles positive thinking is sometimes cynically known as pollyannaish, a naive and overly optimistic view of existence by overlooking the things we don’t like and focusing only around the good.

So how about you?

How do you view things, negatively or positively? It may be simple for all of us to focus only around the negative but it is usually as simple to search for a positive angle to things because it is to get a damaging angle.

By looking on the constructive aspect we can affect our unconscious thoughts as we invoke the law of attraction and we can then attract a better set of circumstances into our life. Remember focus on the positive and anticipate a constructive outcome but did you know that it takes as a lot effort to consider the negative as it is for the positive.

One can’t spend lip service to constructive thinking. You need to apply and make constructive thinking your prevailing perspective in the direction of life. The extremely really feel of positive thinking by itself can help you to feel confident and move towards your goal.

In order to obtain the fantastic standing of constructive thinker, we must realize what constructive thinking is all about and what it’s not. Our typical misconceptions about positive thinking are that cash will drop out of the sky; and great deal more imaginations, while this might be great regrettably it will not occur but by staying positive you remain open to new instructions and guidance rather than just shutting down and giving up.

The way you answer this age-old question about positive thinking and perspective might reflect your outlook on existence, your attitude towards your self, and whether you are optimistic or pessimistic.

As I finish this text, regardless of what occurs to us, we are able to select constructive thoughts and select a constructive perspective. It might not be something that we had been all born with but it’s a way of taking a look at the brighter side of life that helps us construct the existence we would like.

You could sum it up in a single phrase, and that 1 would be “Faith”.

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Words Of Encouragement For Children

2:39 pm in Pyschology That Helps by seph

The way we speak to our children has an impact on the way they will behave and who they become. Just think back on all the things that were said to you and how they affected your character today.

For some ideas on words that can bring out the best in your kids you can even try: what to write in an encouragement card inspirational words words of encouragement for employees

You must remember that as a parent you might say all the right things to your child but he/she has society to deal with. So besides saying positive and encouraging things to them you must also prepare them for some of the things that society will throw at them. This is where the problems usually lies; in our children trying to be accepted in circles outside the home.

It does not matter at what age they might be at, trying to fit into society will always be a challenge. The earlier you start training your children the easier it will be for them to learn these principles. one way you can promote positive action in your children is by teaching them to be responsible.

Get them involved in the things around the house and I am not talking about household chores either. you can let them take part in some of the decisions that involve the whole family. Besides being encouraging this helps them to be confident about their opinions.

There are some definite words that you can say to your children that will bring out positive responses from them. You will be able to find words that will fit into various kinds of situations, for those times when they are in trouble, when they have done well or you just want them to do things when you say they must be done. Whatever the case there are words that can get your message across.

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